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NEW DOC ‘GETS IT’ ABOUT HOW CORSETS WORK! But he hasn’t a clue about why it works and what a short time it takes to see results, like weeks and months.before and after.2 for gif

A New Jersey cosmetic surgeon is quoted in a Sept. 21 Seattle Times article: “I think there’s something to it (corset waist training),” he said. “It does actually work, because you are losing water weight. It’s like getting a body wrap. The problem is, the results are really short-lived.” But, (Steven) Davis also pointed out that there could be some muscular benefits from waist training on a regular basis.

“You are training your core to get stronger,” Davis explained, likening it to how experts instruct you to hold your stomach in while doing plank exercises. “A lot of people wear things like that, because you are training your transverse abdominis muscles to stay in that position.”

Davis continued, “I think that there probably is some validity to the whole process. But I don’t know how long it would take for that to happen.”

We wrote to Dr. Davis immediately to tell him that for our 25 or so students we have coached in our 3-month program since 1995, a remarkable 20 years of experience — we have seen remarkable results occur. Those include from a 50 lb/5″ waistline loss to a 34 lb/6.5″ waistline loss!

The point is NOT how rapid the results are, nor “does corset waist training work”. Most of us know it works even if some of us waited for “the word” from on high from Ms. Kardashian….

The point is: can you get right with your thinking process, and decide you value YOU and a svelte, healthy figure and lifestyle better than chocolate and Krispy Kremes –so that a few habit changes you will have to make will last the rest of your lifetime?

That kind of meaningful success takes more than one corset, one visit to the gym, one bariatric surgery (which costs about $20,000 by the way), or one tummy lipo (which doesn’t even sculpt out the waistline and costs about $6000-10,000 by the way).before and after for gif

At ROMANTASY we are now concentrating on providing more support to our students and clients,  now have a one-month Tune Up program (Heather is now tuning up with her new training Belt) and invite you to join our new private and confidential blog for more meaningful discussions on corset waist training and health in general, plus provide support for others based on your own experience. Just send us email and we’ll make you an author!

The  two clients pictured on this page waist trained following the principles detailed in our 300-page training manual: Corset Magic (still the only comprehensive ‘how to’ book on the topic since 2003, updated in 2015, order online). The process works no matter you body size of shape, where you begin, sex, age or gender — if you work it and go about it in a common sense way with an eye toward the future so you can maintain your success.


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The IsoBag, via Lee

isobag34Lee uses an IsoBag to portion out her meals and loves it. Here is what she told me:

“I use the 3 meal bag, and it actually fits 4 meals anyway.  The containers are perfect portion size, there are ice packs to keep everything cold all day at work.  There is a top zip section, and 2 side cylindrical cold containers.  I am good to go all day.  While the 3 meal bag is a reasonable size, it isn’t that big, I still would like to get the mini size too.  The mini size would be perfect for weekends when I just need to take a meal with me so that I don’t miss my meal time, or be forced to eat something unhealthy.
“I’m really not snacking.  I eat often enough that I really don’t get hungry, or by the time I’m hungry it is time to eat again.  Sometimes at night, however, I find myself craving some kind of cheat.  I still have trouble at night and want to cheat/eat.  Sometimes I give in and eat/cheat.
“I have been buying the Lindt 99% cocoa chocolate bars lately.  It isn’t my favorite chocolate at all, however, it is nearly without sugar and it satisfies the chocolate craving.
“Yes, I drink just water, with the following exceptions:  my morning cup of coffee with cream (I cut out the afternoon one most days); and I usually have a vodka on the rocks if I go out on the weekend.  I like to put sliced fruit in my water.  I refill a plastic Voss bottle, because the mouth is wide enough for me to put fruit in the bottle with my water.”
You can find the IsoBag here:

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How Much Sugar is in a Fully-leaded Coke?

Sugar in a Coke_6I’ve been pursuing a no-refined sugar diet since June 15 and became curious about the above question. I decided to go for a visual representation.

My partner weighed out 39 grams of sugar contained in a fully-leaded Coke.  He put it in a container about the same circumference of a Coke can and you can see it pictured here.

Can you imagine drinking slightly under one-quarter of a cup of pure refined sugar? That is what you are doing when you drink a Coke!

I’m not sure about you, but this picture shocks me. It also reinforces my resolution to avoid refined sugar as much as I possibly can by my two suggested strategies: avoiding cakes, pies, cookies, and candies, plus reading labels to choose the lowest possible if any refined sugar content in my foods.

I also implemented today something I have experimented with in the past in order to improve my diet and stave off hunger. Last night I was not hungry at dinner for an unknown reason, so I decided to just stop eating. What a novel concept! Imagine that, stopping eating when  one feels full no matter how much is on your plate (mom would not approve!)

For dinner I ate one bite of lean baked pork loin, one bite of stir fried bok choy (in spray of olive oil), and two bites of baked half of sweet potato with 1/4 tsp. of butter and then noticed that I was not hungry. I then wrapped up the rest and put it in the fridge.

This morning the remainder of my dinner was my breakfast at 7:30 am. So far by 11 am I’m not hungry and have had only about 7 almonds for a snack. I’m certain from my research that the key to defeating hunger is to eat a good bit of protein at breakfast (and any meal). Hunger and stress are said to be the two things that most defeat diets and good nutrition intentions. I’m working on hunger as a new chapter in my book for the next fall revision.

Anyone want to share their tips?

Don’t forget that ROMANTASY now  sponsors TWO blogs. You are reading (and we hope “following”) our general blog, while you may access our other private blog by sending a simple email request to us, including a brief summary of your interest in good nutrition, health and waist or figure shaping and corsetry (even if you are not a ROMANTASY client). Our private and confidential blog will be for you to author and post directly your tips, waist-training progress notes about your own experience, and encouragement for others.

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“Clean” Foods and “Clean” Eating

Chicken sweet pot green beans cauliOnce we finally and fully “hear” for the first time a new term or phrase, it seems to pop up everywhere! How about “clean eating.” Do you know what that means?

About a month ago when I was preparing for Lee’s three-month waist-training coaching program, I learned the term “clean foods.” Lee said she “ate clean.”

Intuitively I knew what she meant, but the term did not fully register at first. Today on the Good Morning America news report I heard the term for the second time. I went online to learn more — so I admit here that I may be one of the last ones to “get with it” in terms of this apparently popular nutritional approach to health!

According to Eating Clean For Dummies by Jonathan Wright, Linda Johnson Larson, “Eating clean is simply the practice of avoiding processed and refined foods and basing your diet on whole foods.” It means (1) eating whole foods, (2) avoiding refined sugar, (3) avoiding processed foods, (4) eating five or six small meals a day, (5) cooking your own meals, and (6) combining proteins plus carbs, or carbs plus fats.  Simple enough.

I don’t know about you, but “eating clean” also seems a bit intimidating to me. All six of the above steps might be too much to try to accomplish all at once. I’m one who has learned personal lessons about not making huge dietary or exercise changes at the same time. That approach is almost lethal for me and I suspect may be for many folks.

Through some miserable experiences with “all at once”, I now know to make one modest change at a time, let it sink in and become more or less of a new habit, then move on to some other area of my life or figure or daily practices that I want to change.

I’m pleased to think that I have already recently adopted one major “eating clean” change: giving up refined sugar!

I’ve blogged about my progress since doing just that on June 15 upon returning from a lovely, but food-indulgent, camping trip to Yellowstone and the Tetons parks. From 120.6 lbs on June 15 I’ve dropped down to today’s weight: 112.6, a full eight pounds.

I can’t say it was “without suffering” because it wasn’t. The first three weeks for me were hellish,with constant low-level headaches wrapping around the back of my head, and constant mild nausea sunup to sundown. It wasn’t pretty and I wasn’t nice to live with during those weeks. But Lee found it easy to do! She told me she had heard that their might be a gene related to those who loved sugar, but she felt she didn’t have it due to the ease of her decision when she implemented it. The only sugar she now eats is an occasional one square of dark chocolate a time or two each week.

Mysteriously to me on the Monday of the fourth week, the suffering lifted. It dissipated a few days before that, came back a day, then totally disappeared. Slowly I’ve found that my overall energy level has increased and I’ve become so much more pleased with my weight, the look of my body as belly and thigh fat has been reducing, and most of all with the development of muscles in my legs and arms that I had lost over the past years of mainly computer-based business with no formal exercise program in place. Dropping refined sugar plus at the same time having a three-day per week exercise program in place, has led to my improved figure, weight, and overall health and energy level I’m sure. But now I think I need to do even better and use Lee’s example as inspiration to move forward.

chick broc sweetOnce I started learning more about clean eating from Lee, I found that her pictoral food record was fascinating.  This blog includes images she has sent me of some of her meals during her first week of training, meals which tend to be quite similar day-to-day and meal-to- meal. She says she never gets bored.

Boredom can be addressed by adding herbs and spices, with some suggestions included in the Clean Foods for Dummies page referenced above. I’ve always loved Mrs. Dash herbs which contain no msg, salt, or sugar. And nothing tastes as good as fresh minced herbs such as thyme, rosemary, and basil.

Lee had initially suggested that, rather than send a boring written record, as I normally require and expect of my students for the first two weeks of training. The first thing I noted was how colorful her plates looked, and I’ve always loved color at an emotional level. It makes me happy. Looking at those plates could certainly inspire me!

While Lee’s good habits in nutrition were firmly established, she is facing some current challenges due to her planned trip to France to visit a cousin. We had prepared her best we could for the flight and vacation as well, but still the challenges are developing.

We won’t here discuss the corset-wearing challenges since our focus in on food, but needless to say the first “easy” week of seasoning her new training corset (pictured hereLee's corset) became a lot more challenging on the flight and in France! We’ll cover those in another blog.

For her air flight we urged her to bring healthy snacks with her to avoid rich and quick foods ubiquitous at airports, especially in Atlanta, the hub of the south and southern cooking through which Lee had to travel. She did just that:

“I made a homemade organic trail mix of raw almonds, a few cashews, dark chocolate covered walnuts, yogurt covered blueberries and dried blueberries.  Yummy!  Will send pic.  Also have a feast of turkey burgers, baked sliced turkey, slightly steamed green beans, sliced peppers, protein powder and a shaker, and quest protein bars. We will not be at the mercy of airport/ airplane food!”In terms of her preparation for being in France, Lee said before she left: “I will allow myself a few reasonable indulgences in France, but they will be small portions, and I will eat slowly, chewing everything 30 times.  I will keep up with the 5-6 small meals, my abdominal exercises, and lots of walking.”

While she anticipated being able to eat relatively clean because she was living in a home with her cousin and not having to take all her meals out, still she is in France–France: the home of superb cuisine, rich sauces, great breads, fantastic cheeses and more. It was not unexpected that on Monday Aug. 31 the start of her third training week, Lee reported:

“Food was bad this day.  My cousin had a full-day agenda for us, and we were out all day……. eating and walking around.  I did not over eat, however, it was difficult to find healthy food choices.  Also, since being in Provence and on other peoples’ schedules…… I have been eating 3 larger meals per day and not the 5-6 smaller ones that I need to be eating.  Also, not drinking enough water, as the ability to use a restroom and the need to use a restroom (at least 1X per hour) was not readily available/ possible.  So I am not getting all of the water that I should be ingesting.”

Lee is doing well despite her apparent disappointment with herself, and the changes that were inevitably to be made during travel abroad. I surmise her disappointment in France is because of her personality and experience as a focused, disciplined professional in her demanding legal career.

But perfection is not the goal here.  I’ve emphasized to her that 95% is the goal during corset training — and that all the walking she is doing substitutes readily for a gym-based program that she is used to. If she has to loosen up the corset from time to time to accommodate a few rib sorenesses that are developing, or indulge in a few French treats or eat fewer meals than recommended for training, there is no shame in that. In a few days Lee will return to her home in Florida and pick up her normal program and eating habits once more.

Going easy on herself allows her now to fully enjoy the wonderful treat of experiencing another country and culture and the warm embrace of her family there! ###



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Good Taste – in the Mouth but Not on the Hips!

I’ve noticed an interesting result of my recent waist-training efforts to drop an inch in my waistline and also off my hips. I’ve accomplished both things in eight weeks, chronicled earlier in this blog. However, along the way my taste has improved!

I wonder how many times we dampen down taste by over-salting foods and eating too much sugar? Has anyone noticed that?

We all know the general heath benefits from eating a low-fat, low-sugar, low-carb diet when we also eat lots of fatty fish like salmon, veggies and fruits. However, I did not anticipate that there is great pleasure also to be derived from a healthy diet like that!

I remember Christine who was an early coaching student many years ago in my waist-training program. After a month of waist training and changing her food choices to focus more on veggies and less on fats and meats, she found for the first time in her life that she enjoyed the taste of celery! That comment in her final program evaluation struck me as a bit odd.

It strikes me as a bit odd that a few weeks ago after being off refined sugar for about six weeks, I noticed that my snack portion of almonds tasted sweet. I had never noticed that before when eating almonds.  I also adore dried sour cherries, which have taken on a kind of brillance of taste these days when I couple them with almonds (nuts reduce the speed with which the fruit sugar enters your bloodstream, all to the good).

Last night in my attempt to find new non-sugar desserts, I tried a few wee slices of pineapple-encrusted svarin brillat cheese on a very slender half slice of sour dough, followed by a small slice of fresh nectarine. The cheese (and the nectarine also) was almost overwhemingly sweet (but deliciously so!). My partner said the combination held as much pleasure for him as does his favorite cheese cake! Amazing comment that certainly got my attention, as did my own taste response.

My present waist-training student, Lee, agrees. When I discussed this development with her, Lee said that since she adopted a natural foods diet, her taste for fruits also improved and that grapes by now were “almost too sweet” to her.

We also discussed how to eat chocolate, her favorite sweet indulgence. My approach in coaching is to teach students to go for the best, most exquisite and most expensive preferred treat possible, even if it is chocolate, but go for very small portions, like one square or piece as dessert. Then, learn to carefully and lovingly lick your piece of chocolate to death, taking up to an hour–a new idea that tickled Lee’s fancy when she first heard it from me! She said: “I had 1 square of Lindt 85% cocoa dark chocolate.  I made it last for 20 mins.  :)  … well short of an hour, but a long time for me!”

It’s an interesting adventure to experiment with one’s nutritional program, tweaking this or that and changing how we eat, then noting the results. Pay attention not only to results using the tape measure or scale as do most corset waist-trainees, but also note the more subtle pleasures that might just develop unexpectedly along the way, making the process of corset waist training both fascinating and rewarding as well!



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More on Sugar and Exercise

Althogh a bit tangential to corset waist-training, my continued interest on our well-being and the issue of obesity was intensified today by a brilliant August 13 online report gratefully sent to me by a lovely client Angela;  See

The report deals with two things: exercise and sugar. Re sugar, it says:

A study11 published in the New England Journal of Medicine in August 2013 demonstrates that even mild elevation of blood sugar — a level of around 105 or 110 — is associated with an elevated risk for dementia.

And regarding exercise it says:


“…three new studies looking at exercise and Alzheimer’s show that not only can exercise reduce your risk of the disease, it appears to be an important part of treatment as well. According to Maria Carrillo, chief science officer of the Alzheimer’s Association: ‘Based on the results we heard reported… at AAIC 2015, exercise or regular physical activity might play a role in both protecting your brain from Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias, and also living better with the disease if you have it.’ “


I’ve become increasingly committed personally and professionally as a waist-training coach and adviser to my corset clients, to the matter of exercise and more recently, to reducing our intake of refined sugar. I knew about exercise and the brain, but now there is proof that not only does sugar relate to weight and shape, it also relates to our brain!

If that isn’t sufficient proof that we must get hold of our addictions to sugar and pull out all the stops to reduce it in our diet, I don’t know what is.

Often I am asked about age and corset waist training. I did not begin to corset until I was age 48 so I know it can be done later in life and most likely, becomes more, not less, important to pursue if one is interested in this strategy and technique for weight/figure control.

Obesity is more of a problem for the aging person, especially as we tend to need fewer calories the older we are. We all know that as a matter of common knowledge. But we tend to forget it and as we age, go up not only in years but in weight.

For women this trend likely contributes to a poor body image and discouraged feelings, whereas as we age and grow in wisdom, we also should be growing in contentment and pleasure in knowing more and taking better care of ourselves.

I hope you read the full online report!


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Stress and Obesity – another new report linking the two

Happy DanceI learned on today’s Good Morning America TV news show, that there is yet another research study out linking stress to obesity, as a fact not just a theory. The earliest report on that matter I found was on webmd’s website, mentioning a 2009 study. “Researchers found a molecule the body releases when stressed called NPY (neuropeptide Y). NPY appears to unlock certain receptors in fat cells, causing them to grow in both size and number.” The report seems to be linked only to chronic, ongoing stress, but I suspect that occasional acute stress can also wreak havoc.

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Amazingly, even parent’s stress level can effect the obesity rates in their children! See,

While due to a slow computer today I have not yet been able to find the text of the GMA program to locate the new study, I learned that stress triggers the release of insulin, leptin, ghrelin (causes hunger sensations), and other. That leads us to crave sweets and fats. As the GMA reporter said, “no one craves carrots.”

Their solution? Plan. Plan to shop. Plan to cook. Plan snacks. Basically think and don’t rush eating.

I agree that this is one, if not “the”, key to dealing with stress.

But another key is to stick to your own waist-training plan and be disciplined. I discovered and mentioned this in my book, with the section on Stress reiterated below. I hope it helps you follow your plan when you encounter unusual stress and are tempted to stray. Just let your nurturing parent step forward and impose some tough love on yourself. You may be surprised by how corset waist-training can have certain emotional benefits!

How do you cope with stress during waist training? Share you tips and tricks here and I’ll happily pass them on in order to be helpful to others.



For certain, life has its stresses for every person alive, and there is today, information overload causing “continuous partial attention” says former Microsoft executive Linda Stone (see her bog, The Attention Project), as reported by writer Katy Read in “May I Have My Attention, Please?, AARP The Magazine, July/August 2010. Everyone responds differently sometimes even to identical stressors. I’ve already discussed above, the possible benefits of over-preparation before public presentations, especially for those who are corseted and tend to be introverts in their work and personal lives.

According to one doctor, “Studies in humans show that stress in around 30% of the population decreases food intake and induces loss of weight.” (See, Apparently, for the most of us stress works in the opposite direction.

It’s been known for some years that there is a connection between stress and obesity. That’s certainly my case. When I’m in love I noted that hunger tends to disappear and when I’m in a more normal state, stress makes me eat. Could falling in love be “the” solution to incorporate into your corset waist-training program?:-)
Everyday health online reported in 2009 that there was finally some research that linked stress and obesity(see, (N.B. Actually webmd reports that as early as 2007; see start of this blog) I ran across the same idea on August 10, 2015 when listening to Good Morning America.. Stress raises our craving for glucose and changes our brain chemistry. It triggers the release of insulin, leptin, ghrelin (that causes hunger) and other hormones. Since “no one craves carrots” according to the GMA reporter, then you’ll be particularly challenged to “exercise your nurturing, rational adult” as I call it, and concentrate hard on your training program.

However, the very good news is that a very routinized training program can work to counter stress! One day I read that certain research suggests that when stressed we not only eat more fats and sugars, but we comfort ourselves with familiar routines. That was when I realized why some of my students have done quite well with waist training, even when they have lost jobs or been served with divorce papers!

The comfort of a daily corseting routine that is familiar and disciplined, can provide structure to an otherwise chaotic situation, and you may well find that corseting reduces your stress level, rather than exacerbates it. So don’t automatically conclude that corset waist training will make your busy, stressed-out life less manageable since it might happily work in just the opposite way.

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P.S. The text of the GMA coverage may be found at:

The very strange thing is that the new research results are “published in the journal our roon.” I’ve never heard of a journal called “Our Roon” so I assume this is an editorial type. Perhaps it will be corrected so that we find the actual report and read it. Anyone have any ideas here?

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